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Counseling for Gender Concerns (and internet counseling is an option now!) Michele O'Mara, LCSW is a gender
specialist, providing gender care to transgender men and women
throughout the United States. Her services are available
online, as well as in her Indianapolis based office. Michele
is a great resource for anyone experiencing conflicts around their
gender, as well as those who are clear about their truest
internalized gender and simply need assistance in bringing your true
gender to the surface. As a gender specialist, Michele has
worked with hundreds of transgender identified men and women over
the last decade, and she has written over a hundred letters of
referral for hormone replacement therapy (according to the Standards
of Care), as well as 10 letters of referral for Gender Confirmation
Surgery, and additional letters for chest reconstruction. Gender Services include:
On-line sessions are also an option for
out-of-town clients. About Gender Identity Dysphoria
Gender dysphoria, which is also known as 'gender identity
disorder' or (GID), is a medical diagnosis that describes an
experience of anxiety, confusion, and discomfort about the
discrepancy between one's biological sex, and one's self-defined
gender identity which does not match their biological sex. Gender confusion, and conflict may ebb and flow over the
years, with some periods of time being more difficult than others.
Eventually, however, it will begin to permeate every aspect of life,
causing increasing amounts of distress, confusion, and anxiety for
the gender incongruent person. For diagnostic purposes, the mental health community relies
on a manual commonly referred to as the DSM-IV, to classify someone
as having Gender Identity Dysphoria (GID). The primary
criteria for this diagnosis are strong and persistent cross-gender
identification. This means the person wants to be, or is
insistent they already belong to, the opposite sex. A person
must be persistently uncomfortable in their current gender role, and
feel that it's not congruent with their physical self. This
diagnosis will not fit if a person is motivated to transition for
the purposes of experiencing a cultural advantage of the other sex.
Likewise, the diagnosis is not appropriate for someone
with intersex conditions. There has to be evidence of
clinically significant distress, or damage to important aspects of
the person's life to diagnose gender identity disorder. Gender dysphoria is an overwhelming and widely
misunderstood condition that causes significant distress for those
experiencing these conflicts. It is common for gender
dysphoric men and women to develop anxiety and depression. The
longer these issues go un-addressed, the more severe the conflicts
can become. Many people make choices to affirm their
biological sex by over-compensating for their gender identification
with the other sex. Men may go to extremes to prove their
masculinity, including marriage and fatherhood, and biological women
may also go to extremes to prove their femininity. Transsexualism can be defined as incongruence between the
biological sexual differentiation and the gender identity. In
a nutshell, a man or woman who experiences the feeling that they
have the mind of one gender and the body of another. The
intensity of conflict for a transsexual is such that relief can only
be experienced by changing their body to match their mind. Transitioning one's gender role typically involves a
regimen of Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT), which may or may not
be followed by Sexual Reassignment Surgery (SRS) depending on how a
person defines their own gender. Some men and women are
able to find relief for their gender-incongruence by changing their
physical self enough to be perceived by the world in the gender that
is most true for them, regardless of the genitals they have.
Others, despite the private nature of what one's genitals are, feel
persistently uncomfortable until their entire physical self,
genitals and all, match their gender identification. There are no studies, currently, that reflect an accurate
representation of the percentage of people who experience gender
dysphoria. Because of the highly-stigmatized, often
shame-based nature of this condition, it is common for those with
gender issues to censor and conceal their feelings, thus
compromising our ability to know how many people are experiencing
this pain.
If you would like to work with Michele O'Mara, LCSW to find relief
from your gender conflicts, you are welcome to schedule an
appointment (for internet based, or in-office sessions) directly
from the internet on her
on-line scheduler.
__________________________________________ Scheduling online sessions is easy: 1. Visit my online scheduler and pick a time (which is in Eastern Standard Time zone) that you would like to meet with me. 2. Once you've scheduled, add my contact info to your Skype address book (I will not confirm your Skype address until you've scheduled).
My Skype address is michele.omara 3. Await confirmation from me. I will email you with the details about our upcoming session.
4. Payment options include Paypal, Visa/MC, or you can mail me a check or money order in advance of our session.
5. 45 minute sessions are $90, 60 minute sessions are $115, 90 minute sessions are $175
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